Sunday, July 25, 2010

African Summer Camps




African youth love attending our Sports Friends summer camps. It's an absolutely incredible lifetime experience for each participant. I would like to get sponsors for 100 Nigerian campers. For $39 you can send one child to camp for a week.








If you're interested then send a check to:
SIM USA PO BOX 7900 Charlotte, NC 28241-7900 SFN Project #96549 Thank You for considering this request! Over 100 youth in our July 2010 camps have already indicated their lives have been deeply impacted by the week long camp experience.

Tuesday, July 20, 2010

An Ethiopian Football Joke

Sent from our Ethiopian National Director:

I send for you this thing to read, it....


A Korean asked God when Korea would win the world cup and God said in about 50 years time. The Korean cried because it wouldn't be in his lifetime. A Japanese asked God the same question and God replied in 100 years and all of Japan cried because it wouldn't be in their life time. Then Ethiopians asked God the same question and God began to cry, because God replied it wouldn't be in my lifetime.

What do you think? Is not true????

Blessings,

Berhanu


Monday, July 12, 2010

"We are his Witnesses" by nike

The 10 story Nike mural that hung in downtown Cleveland of Lebron James with outstretched arms, along with his face looking heavenward and the words "WE ARE HIS WITNESSES" is finally gone, THANKFULLY! Talk about IDOLATRY. That mural made my stomach turn.
In the O.T., idolatry was evidenced by graven images like that of Baal. In modern times, interestingly enough, it's images & names of sports icons which can be found on murals, posters, t-shirts, uniform tops, cards, pictures and more. Both time periods are offering the same thing, images that are to be worshipped by the people! None more obvious than the one that hung in Cleveland, until this weekend.
Sports teams are used often times by people to fill their need for community as well. They want to be connected to all those like minded people who have a similar passion. They become absolutely fanatical, from an early age (thanks to their fathers) about their teams. It's a deep connection that binds people together. If one of these fanatics sees another at a restaurant, store or even a rest stop, wearing the team's logo, even if they are complete strangers, they will exchange pleasantries or maybe even get into a deep discussion about the team! If strangers happen to be sitting next to each other at a game and their team does something fantastic they will often times high five and even hug each other.
Likewise there is a need for many people to have a sports hero or two. Someone who is GREAT and better than all the rest. This gives an individual someone to hold up, follow and revere. Both become part of an individual's worship experience. That which was meant for Christ through the body of believers to be found through the local church is discovered in the sports sanctuaries called stadiums all across our country. The headlines in one Miami newspaper last week pictured Wade, Bosc and James under the headline, "THE NEW KINGDOM." Man oh man, that just feels eerily wrong to me.
Has our love for sports gone too far? Yes, along time ago. I should know. I'm a recovering addict. Due to emotional needs I became addicted to the praises of men and many other sicknesses early on. I overdosed on sports time and time again. I was the worst of the worst of addicts! Yet, my life was spared! This sports junkie who fell in love with God has learned the error of his ways (and there have been many) and little by little, day by day, I have discovered the joy of recovery and consequently, the place sports should occupy in my life as a father, coach and fan.
Here are five lessons learned: 1. What a great platform sports is for teaching our kids about righteousness and training them up in the way they should go. 2. Parents must first adopt a kingdom perspective toward their kids' participation in sports to maximize these teaching opportunities. 3. What a great avenue for fathers to unpack their own emotional issues from past sports experiences, unfulfilled athletic dreams and their relationship to their own father through sports, so that they won't live vicariously through their children's sports experiences and/or pass on some of the same patterns of sin to their children 4. Find the right balance between spending time in prayer, alone with God, the study of the scriptures and ministry service involvement, and watching sports on TV (and/or playing). 5. Those who become coaches at any level should be focused first on being positive "Life Influencers" than on winning games. It's not an either/or, but a priority order.
I could go on and on with the lessons I've learned, the branches that have been cut off and the ones that have been pruned with regards to my involvement in sports as an athlete, coach, father, fan and sports minister. I've fallen oh, so short too many times. And as I've stood back and watched the recent Lebron signing circus, the Woods debacle, the USC sanctions, the cheating in soccer that has just become part of the game, the youth sports environment, and so much more I've come to this conclusion: we desperately need Christians who find themselves in the environment of competitive sports, whether they be athletes, coaches, or parents, to accept the challenge of living out the righteousness of God, by abiding in Him, so that we can be the salt & light to a lost, lost world that is looking for a SAVIOR to WORSHIP and A COMMUNITY TO BE A PART OF. We have the opportunity to join the work of Christ, and He has already left the GREATEST LEGACY ever left on this earth!

Wednesday, July 7, 2010

Thanks Bo and Mac

Just wanted to say a BIG thank you to Bo and Mac Cramer for taking the initiative to invite 3 friends from Vanderbilt to go with them to Langano to assist Sports Friends with the first week of summer camp. Instead of having the 40 Ethiopian girls attend our first week that we planned for, 65 showed up! EPHRAIM! He just can't help himself. Sure hope Shane found enough food to feed everyone. Sounds like it was an AWESOME week from all the reports I have received. Many of the girls lives were impacted in a spiritual way.... forever! Please keep these girls and their leaders in your prayers. Pray for spiritual growth, courage and wisdom for each of them. Thanks again BO & Mac for making the Vandy team happen (thanks for all the admin. work by Danny, Cindy Ely and Mom & Dad Crammer as well). Oh, and thank you to the David Harding family for sending your girls and their friends to the camp to help as well. Hope you were blessed by the experience.

Sunday, July 4, 2010

July 4th, 1966

I remember the day so clearly. I was on the porch of our home on 9 Arcade Street in Whitinsville, Massachusetts and lots of people were coming to the house. I kept trying to go in the front door, but no one would let me in and I had no idea why. I kinda made it into a game and when I thought nobody was looking, I'd try an sneak in. I never succeeded and the funny thing was nobody else thought it was funny! Finally, my brother (I think it was Steve?) took me up to the ball field to play catch and not long after that I was taken in a car to my other brothers house to be with my nieces and nephews. Yes, my nieces and nephews. You see I was an uncle the day I was born. Not the most planned baby in the whole wide world, maybe even a mistake, but then again God doesn't make any of those now does he? Mom was 46 and Dad 51 when I was born in a Worcester hospital and my brother Jim was already married with 2 kids and 26 years old. My sister Carol was just a couple years younger than Jim, and my brother Bruce just a couple more after that. Steve was the first mistake (?) and was 14 when I came on the scene.
Well I stayed at my brother Jim's house under the care of his wonderful wife Joanie for a week before my Dad came down. Soon after he arrived he took me up the street for a ride....just me and him. When we reached the fairgrounds he slowed the car down and proceeded to tell me (I was sitting in the back seat) that Mom had died. I WAS SHOCKED! I knew she was sick but I guess at the age of 6 you don't really realize or even think your mom could die. Never in my wildest imagination did I think she was dying! That I would never ever see her again!
After I had a short time to grieve it was back to "normal" life again, never did my Dad and I ever talk about Mom again. But she had left a lasting impression on me, forever! Her greatest gift was that she regular prayed over me. Apparently, 2 years before I was born, a woman by the name of Estell Carter led my Mom to Christ (she also met with my mom regularly to see that she grew in her faith). Obviously my mother knew she was dying of cancer and our time together would be cut short on this earth. I'm sure this must have intensified her prayers for me and that's exactly what I remember about her. She prayed with me everyday. I don't remember one word of any of those prayers, but I have burned into my mind the picture of me kneeling next to her bed as she put her right hand upon my head and PRAYED FOR ME! Could she have given me any better memory? Any better gift? "The prayer of a righteous person has great power...." James 5:16. I am one grateful son who indeed wishes I had more time on this earth with my mom, but knows that in our short time together SHE GAVE TO me something more valuable than any materialistic thing on this earth....SHE GAVE ME HER LOVE AND HER INTENSE PRAYERS....WHAT ELSE COULD I HAVE EVER ASKED FOR!! Thank You Mom.
PS "Mom....I've got good news and bad news....the bad news is I'm the chief sinner of a sports ministry...the good news is I love GOD WITH ALL MY HEART, SOUL, STRENGTH and MIND.........hmmmm....guess you knew that already though huh? Thinking of you on this independence celebration day which I'm so grateful to our troops for -what a privilege to live in a free country! But nothing compares to the freedom I have in Christ. Mom I believe your prayers played a role in that....THANKS!